Men, whom many women have been taught would rather have s3x than breathe oxygen, do have preferences when it comes to positions. And get this: Many even favor quality over quantity. Don’t believe us? These men came forward to reveal their favorite s3x moves — and most proved tamer than you might imagine.
1. When you take it slow.
“I like to take it slow, with a lot of oral from both sides. Heavy amounts of kissing, heavy petting. Both excessively sucking on random parts of the body, slow tongue movements across random body parts, etc. Generally, the licking progresses into sucking, but a few early sucks never hurt anyone.” — Michael F., 25, San Diego, California
2. When you both lay on your sides.
“I really like it when we’re on our sides, facing each other, because it’s intimate but we can also be aggressive. We can look at each other while we’re f**cking, but this position also lets us both have control over the speed and intensity and my thrusting. My girlfriend tells me there’s something about sideways s3x that targets her clit in the right way — it doesn’t hurt that she comes a lot quicker this way.” — James P., 35, Brooklyn, New York
3. When your ankles are over your shoulders.
“I don’t have the biggest penis in the world, but the position that makes me feel like I’m breaking my girlfriend (in a good way) is when she’s on her back and I throw her ankles over my shoulder and penetrate her. It makes penetration feel deeper for us both, especially if her butt is hanging a little bit off the bed.” — John J., 29, Phoenix, Arizona
4. When you have s3x on the couch.
“I like it when she straddles my penis as I’m sitting in a chair or on the couch. I can see and touch everything, including her br3asts and clit. I know a lot of guys like reverse c0wgirl and it’s hot to see a girl’s asss and everything, but I always feel like it bends my penis to the point where it might break.” — Peter C., 31, Asheville, North Carolina
5. When you do d0ggy style.
“D0ggy, all the way. I’m an asss man so, for me, there’s nothing better than watching her asss come straight at me. My current girlfriend isn’t into a*nal s3x, which is fine, but d0ggy makes me feel like we’re having a*nal, but better: there’s no chance I’ll wind up with an strange ‘surprise’ on my pen1s when we’re finished.” — Brian S., 27, Richmond, Virginia
6. When you climb on top for c0wgirl position.
“C0wgirl is better than reverse c0wgirl and d0ggy because parts of her body bounce, I can touch and feel every part of her body, and I get to see her face and her reactions. You can’t underestimate how hot that is.” — Paul B., 37, New York, New York
7. When you have s3x in front of a mirror.
“Anything in front of a mirror — literally — anything in front of a mirror is 100,000 times better than without a mirror. Watching my girlfriend give me a bl0w job on her knees in front of a mirror is the hottest thing I’ve ever seen, but so is looking over and watching her ride me. Mirrors give us a chance to go where our eyes can’t and it’s the closest analog to both acting in and watching a dirty movie.” — Andrew A., 37, New York, New York
8. When you say yes to 69.
“69 can be amazing — but only if you’re around the same height. My wife seems to feel less self conscious about getting 0ral when I’m down on her at the same time, so she really lets loose and reciprocates by deep throating and going harder sucking at my penis. All in all, it’s a win.” — Tom F., 41
9. When you lay down on the ground.
“My girlfriend and I like it when she’s submissive so the move that always gets me is her laying flat on her belly and me on top of her from behind. It feels more intimate than d0ggy because I can wrap my hands around her br3asts or rub her clit at the same time. I also like being able to cover her body with mine and holding her hands down. It always feels like my pen1s is as deep inside of her as possible in this position.” — Stefan, 31, Hawthorne, New Jersey
10. When you tell him a story.
“It doesn’t matter what position we’re in because all positions have pros and cons (mostly pros!), but when my girlfriend starts to tell me about this fantasy she has where she comes home and finds her best friend giving me a bl0wjob and then joins in, I have to stop myself from having an 0rgasm in seconds. She describes every detail and looks me in the eye while she’s doing it — it just makes me want to thrust harder or do whatever I have to do to make her come. It took her a long time to add her friend into the fantasy (she used to leave out the person’s identity), but I told her men are visual and instead of being intimidated by that, she went with it. And that makes her and the s3x even hotter.” — Justin R., 29, Raleigh, North Carolina